313. Hold the Headline: How Curiosity Cuts Through Complexity
"The dumbest thing you can be is a know-it-all."
Curiosity isn't about having all the answers—it's about asking better questions. Journalist and podcast host Nayeema Raza believes the strongest communicators balance confidence with openness, using curiosity to better understand people, ideas, and the world around them. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Raza joins Matt Abrahams to explore how to make complex ideas accessible, ask questions that spark meaningful conversations, and communicate with both confidence and humility. From writing punchier questions to embracing uncertainty, she shares practical strategies for becoming a more thoughtful and engaging communicator.
Key Takeaways:
- Confidence grows through curiosity. The strongest communicators stay open to new ideas, ask thoughtful questions, and leave room to learn rather than assuming they have all the answers.
- Simple questions create meaningful conversations. Clear, concise questions—and a focus on what matters most—help make complex ideas more accessible and engaging.
Activity:
- Write better questions. Take an upcoming meeting, interview, or one-on-one and rewrite three of your questions so each is nine words or fewer. Focus on making them clear, direct, and curiosity-driven.
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- (00:00) - Introduction
- (00:57) - Simplifying Complexity
- (02:11) - Better Questions
- (06:03) - Confidence vs. Certainty
- (07:24) - Interview Nerves
- (10:14) - Prepare to Improvise
- (11:02) - Going Independent
- (13:59) - Curiosity in the Digital Age
- (16:59) - Staying Relevant
- (21:01) - The Final Three Questions
- (25:57) - Conclusion
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00:00 - Introduction
00:57 - Simplifying Complexity
02:11 - Better Questions
06:03 - Confidence vs. Certainty
07:24 - Interview Nerves
10:14 - Prepare to Improvise
11:02 - Going Independent
13:59 - Curiosity in the Digital Age
16:59 - Staying Relevant
21:01 - The Final Three Questions
25:57 - Conclusion
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Matt Abrahams: Curiosity and chemistry
are critical to successful communication.
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My name's Matt Abrahams, and I
teach Strategic Communication at
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Stanford Graduate School of Business.
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Welcome to Think Fast,
Talk Smart, the podcast.
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Today I'm excited to
speak with Nayeema Raza.
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Nayeema is a journalist,
producer, and creator.
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She was the co-host and executive producer
of the hit podcast On with Kara Swisher.
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She now hosts her own podcast,
Smart Girl, Dumb Questions.
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Her work has appeared in The New
York Times and New York Magazine, and
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she's produced documentary films that
bridge complex geopolitical issues
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with accessible human narratives.
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Nayeema, thank you for being
here, and welcome to the
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Spotify Studios in New York.
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It's awesome to be with you and
continue the conversations we've had
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on the phone and on email, in person.
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Nayeema Raza: Thank you
so much for having me.
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I love your show, and I'm so
thrilled to be part of it.
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Matt Abrahams: Excellent.
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Shall we get started?
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Nayeema Raza: Yes, let's jump in.
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Matt Abrahams: So if you look
at your career from management
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consultant to journalist to
podcast, uh, you've changed a lot.
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Nayeema Raza: Yes, and you
missed documentary filmmaking.
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Matt Abrahams: I did.
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I did.
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That's true.
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That's true, and now TED speaker.
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Nayeema Raza: Yes, and for
people listening, I'm not old.
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I just want you to know
that I'm young still.
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Matt Abrahams: That's right.
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You're very young and very hip.
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Uh, in all of those roles actually, you've
had to synthesize complex information
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and make it accessible to people.
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What kind of tools and frameworks
do you use to help make that
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content easily understood?
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Nayeema Raza: So much of it
has to do with how I grew up.
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I grew up in Indonesia and Sudan.
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I'm Pakistani, born in DC.
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My entire life I've been
what's called, the technical
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term, is a third culture kid.
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Um, in environments where I didn't
necessarily always speak the language,
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didn't always, and so I learned to speak
body language and read what was happening,
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and I think sometimes we get caught up
in the details of a moment, but when I'm
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making a film or a podcast or telling
a story or making a slide, I think part
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of the gift of how I grew up is being
able to focus on that big picture and
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think about what the message is that's
coming across, both as I'm receiving
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it and as I'm kind of projecting it.
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Matt Abrahams: One of the things
I have found so useful in the way
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you communicate and break things
down is you make it relevant.
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So you connect it to the people who are
listening, which I think really helps.
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Do you do that consciously, or is
that just something that happens?
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Nayeema Raza: I think that it's,
it's something that I've become
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conscious of and I do increasingly.
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So I think that, that my kind of
superpower as a communicator is
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the ability to bring some levity
to topics of gravity and to bring
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some gravity to topics of levity.
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And what I mean by that is, you know,
if you're talking about the world
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today, politics, war, et cetera,
oh my God, it can be such a bummer.
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And you just want to have a little
bit of sense that the world continues,
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that ,we and so I think infusing some
comedy into that and some levity into
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that while, you know, not discounting
the, the gravity of the situation.
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One of, I think, the, uh, best
ways that I've learned to condense
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information is in the business of
headline writing which is a very
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fraught enterprise these these days.
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But you want to write a headline
when you're writing at The New
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York Times or elsewhere, and we
have a lot of conversation about
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what the headline should be.
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You want it to grab people's
attention, but you want it
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to be faithful to the story.
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You, I don't think, want it
to be polarizing, but you do
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want it to be provocative.
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And so I think as I started doing a
lot of headline writing, I decided that
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the best questions I've ever been asked
in my life are nine words or less.
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Matt Abrahams: Interesting.
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Nayeema Raza: And I think that's the same,
because if you think about conversation
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or you have, someone's cutting through,
like right now and blah, blah, blah,
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you're hearing this, then I say, "How
do we solve that?" That's what you hear.
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That's what we digest.
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So I think there's something about
this punchy, direct question that can
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really help cut through the noise.
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Sometimes you're asking that to somebody
'cause you're interviewing them.
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Sometimes you're asking that to
yourself to get yourself to be a
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better communicator and understander
and interpreter of what's going on.
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Matt Abrahams: I really like this
idea of thinking about your important
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communication as a headline.
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Now, most of us aren't writing
headlines for news outlets.
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But we do write emails with subject lines.
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We do name our meetings.
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We do put titles on slides, and that
advice, I think, applies there as well.
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And if, and keeping, I'm gonna try
the nine-word rule and see if, if we
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can, if that applies in the work I do,
but I, I absolutely like that idea.
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Nayeema Raza: I think it's
particularly useful for questions.
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Particularly useful for questions.
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Matt Abrahams: Yes.
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It's thinking about the emotion as
well as the content and breaking it
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down, and those are all, I think, the
right ingredients for helping make
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complex information more accessible.
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And, and I appreciate that you
do that and continue to do that.
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We'll be right back to
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A lot of your roles have been roles as
translator in some ways, translating
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technical information, uh, translating
for the audience for, for a performer,
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and you've, you've been in the position
often of being a translator for Gen Z and
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millennials, for folks of my generation.
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Do you, do you like that role?
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Do you have certain things
you bring to that role?
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Nayeema Raza: I mean, I think
every type of communication is
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a moment of translation as well.
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I mean, I think now that I'm in
the host seat and kind of star
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of my own show I still think of
myself as being the advocate.
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Even the title, Smart Girl, Dumb
Questions, it's around the kind
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of confidence to be curious.
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And I, I think about that a lot, Matt,
with your work, because you write a
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lot about confidence and the ability
to communicate from that position.
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But I think we have conflated
confidence and certainty a little bit.
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Matt Abrahams: Ah.
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Tell me more about that.
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Nayeema Raza: You wanna be confident
enough that there is some space left in
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your opinion to consider how other people
think to consider new information, and to
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digest that and, and kind of update your
own worldview with that new information.
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Not so confident in your opinion that
you cannot hear anything else, that you
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shut down the kind of first, and so I, I
think, you know, I, like I said in the TED
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Talk I just gave, it's like the dumbest
thing you can be an, is a know-it-all,
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and I have seen that play out.
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Matt Abrahams: You make a really
useful distinction there between
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confidence we have in our ability
to communicate and confidence in
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the things we are communicating.
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And I absolutely agree that that
confidence in what we're saying,
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there needs to be some room
for creativity, for openness.
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Because if we're, if we're sure
of ourselves so much that we don't
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bring in other opinions, you know,
then we are being, as you said,
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dumb and being a know-it-all.
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So, uh, I'm, I'm curious, you certainly
are confident in your opinions and ideas.
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Do you still get nervous
when you interview people
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and when you're interacting?
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And if so, how do you manage that?
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Nayeema Raza: No, I, of course I do.
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Do you?
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Matt Abrahams: Of course.
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Yeah.
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Nayeema Raza: Yes.
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I mean, I think it's, you're nervous
because anytime you film or make
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something, and I learned this as a
documentary filmmaker when I was doing
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this, this, uh, film on the band Sublime
at Tribeca in 2019, like when you're in
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the edit room and you're, and you're,
you ask the editor, "Well, why don't
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we have that?" And it's like, "Well,
because you didn't get it while you were
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producing the…" So it's that scarcity
of time when you're in conversation
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with someone that puts the pressure on.
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It's not who they are.
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I actually don't, I actually, I think
I give more reverence on my show
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when I interview two 11-year-olds
or two doormen than when I interview
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Neil deGrasse Tyson or Mark Cuban.
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But I get nervous about how little
time there is and whether I can
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do everything that I wanna do.
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That's what.
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Matt Abrahams: I, I feel that same way
when, especially in this capacity, is
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people are gifting you their time and
I wanna, I, I get nervous that I'm
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not going to make it a good experience
for them or get as much out of it.
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Nayeema Raza: But I try, I think it's,
uh, you're doing an amazing, amazing job.
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I feel very much like this is
worthwhile use of time and hope everyone
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listening and watching does too.
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I, I think, um- people
really wanna be understood.
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Part of the gift that we have as
hosts is helping understand people.
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Sometimes people don't necessarily
fully understand themselves, and you're
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kind of unpacking and translating that.
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But I, I think if you enter in
the conversation in good faith and
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you're really trying to understand
someone, then the conversation is
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often, if not always, a success.
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Matt Abrahams: And it, it's that approach
that I think can help calm some of those
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nerves, knowing that I'm here to really
listen, to allow the person to be heard.
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It, when you get out of yourself and
realize you're in service of other
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people it can really reduce that anxiety.
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Nayeema Raza: By the way, every time I
stop recording, I'm always like, "That
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was terrible." Doesn't matter what I do.
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Do you have that, or do you have
more confidence on the other end?
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Matt Abrahams: Interesting.
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I, I do have that, I don't
think that was terrible.
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I think, "That could've been better."
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Nayeema Raza: Yes.
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That's, that's actually what I should say.
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I don't think it was terrible.
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Matt Abrahams: Yeah.
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It's like, I'm just, "Oh, that, that, that
could've been better." And, and not on
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the guest part, but it's usually my part.
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It's like, "I could've done this," or,
"I should've done that." Yeah, I, uh,
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I have a friend who talks about how we
shouldn't should all over ourselves.
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And, and I, I unfortunately still do.
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Nayeema Raza: It's just your
ability to be in the moment is,
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is just difficult for all of us.
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Matt Abrahams: No, absolutely.
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But when you can get in that present
moment when you can be in service
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of others, I think the, the anxiety
abates, the confidence builds.
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Nayeema Raza: But that's where I
think preparation and the right
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amount of preparation is so
important because I have found that
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I'm, I do really well with improv.
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I host, uh, a debate sometimes
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at the Comedy Cellar in New York
City for Open to Debate on NPR.
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And I love that environment because
when you have, you know, an intellectual
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threesome, uh, with two people on stage
fighting with each other or sparring
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with each other and you're moderating,
you never know what's gonna happen.
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Matt Abrahams: I like the idea of an
intellectual throuple, but okay, yes.
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Nayeema Raza: Exactly,
intellectual throuple.
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So I think I like to be prepared
enough that I have a map, and then
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absolutely prepared to throw it away.
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And I find when I'm overprepared and I
have a script, it really doesn't serve.
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If, if it's like 30 questions,
it doesn't serve me.
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If it's 10, it's perfect.
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Matt Abrahams: Right.
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Absolutely.
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I, uh, the, a lot of the work I've
done around spontaneous speaking
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is preparing to be spontaneous.
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There's a whole bunch of stuff we
can do, as you're talking about.
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And there's that sweet spot where
it's just enough to give you the
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confidence and the directionality,
but not so much that it's scripted.
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And, and finding that, everybody has
to find their own sweet spot for that.
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But once you do, it really helps.
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You left your roles at The New York Times
and Vox, which are two traditional media
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examples, uh, to strike out on your own.
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Uh, I'm curious to get your thoughts
as a creator, uh, in what's different,
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uh, doing the work you do as an
individual creator wor- versus working
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for a more traditional media outlet?
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Nayeema Raza: Yeah.
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A lot more risk, a lot more reward.
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That's the simple, uh, headline of it.
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Matt Abrahams: And a lot of work.
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Nayeema Raza: A lot of work.
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I think the hardest thing has been
you care so much about your own thing.
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I cared so much about
other people's things.
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I cared about Sway at The New York Times.
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I cared about On with Kara Swisher,
and I, and I cared about Mixed Signals,
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which I co-hosted at Semafor with
Ben Smith, um, my former colleague
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from The New York Times as well.
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But it's a gift to be able to put
all that care into something that you
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want to build and you think deserves
to be in the world, and then the
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challenge becomes finding other people
who care about it as much as you do.
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Um, I have a great team, so I have
found that in people like Desta,
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my producer, uh, Melissa, Johnny
Simon, who engineers our content.
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I mean, I, I found people who
really care, uh, about it.
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So much so that sometimes I'll be
like, "Can we get this out early?"
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And they're like, "It's not gonna be
as good." And I appreciate that they,
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Matt Abrahams: Yeah, that feedback.
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Nayeema Raza: That
feedback loop or, you know.
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Um, but I think, okay, this is a very
hard question for me because I also
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worry about a world in which we're
all just broadcasting and projecting,
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and everyone has their own channels.
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And everyone has to be a
creator, and everyone, and
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that's what we're being told now.
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It's like, well, what does eight
billion channels look like, and
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who the heck is left to watch?
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No wonder everything matters but
only in the first second, you know?
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Um, so I think about it a lot.
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I think I only did this show because
I felt I had something to say or,
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or a, not even something to say.
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I felt I had a tone that I
didn't find in the world.
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Matt Abrahams: Oh, interesting.
00:13:14.738 --> 00:13:17.468
Nayeema Raza: I, I felt that I found
people who were very angry, who were
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very certain, who were very unplugged,
disinterested, but I wasn't finding
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that intersection of, okay, I wanna
be informed and, about the world and
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thoughtful about not the day-to-day
news, but these big ideas, capitalism,
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hyperindependence, individualization,
the shifting world order.
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And I wanna talk about it in ways
that really impact my own life, and
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I wanna do it with a sense of comedy.
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And the best thing I could find
was comedians who would do this.
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But you know, I think there is a, a
missing middle of can you be much more
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entertaining than legacy media, much
more factual than the average kind of
00:13:50.177 --> 00:13:57.897
podcast bro or chick, and, you know,
more useful than yesterday's news?
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Matt Abrahams: The, the purpose-driven
approach is, stands out in, in what you
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just said, is, is it's not just about
getting information out, it's having
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a purpose behind that information.
00:14:09.002 --> 00:14:13.211
I have worked very hard on thinking
about the purpose of this show, and
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you've clearly thought about yours.
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And I think part of the advice I would
give to anybody who starts down this
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path of being a creator is really
know your purpose, really figure
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out what's motivating you 'cause
it's hard work, and that purpose can
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really get you through some of that.
00:14:28.632 --> 00:14:32.372
I want to give you an opportunity to talk
about your TED Talk that just came out.
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It was, it's, it's very
brief, but very effective.
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Talk to us about the, the idea of
being curious in the modern age.
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Nayeema Raza: One, it was such
a honor and privilege to be
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invited to give a TED Talk.
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I wasn't expecting it.
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I'd done something at the Comedy
Cellar, and, um, some of the
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editors at TED and Ignite were
there and asked me to do this talk.
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I wanted to give a voice to two
11-year-olds I'd interviewed on my show.
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And I had asked them, "How does life
on screens feel different to real
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life?" Because I keep seeing kids,
I don't have kids yet, but I see
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kids at airports, et cetera, just on
FaceTime not speaking to each other.
00:15:08.981 --> 00:15:09.502
Have you seen this?
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Matt Abrahams: Yes.
00:15:11.182 --> 00:15:11.202
Nayeema Raza: Yeah.
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So I asked them why that happens and
how that feels different to real life.
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And Sophie, then 11, now 12, says
"You know, it just feels so much
00:15:21.122 --> 00:15:25.341
more together when you're with them
on FaceTime." That blew my mind.
00:15:25.611 --> 00:15:26.562
And I said, "What do you mean?
00:15:26.572 --> 00:15:29.852
Like, even more than real life?"
And Sophie responds, "Yeah,
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because when you're on FaceTime,
you're doing stuff together.
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You're playing together.
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You're doing homework together.
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You're doing Roblox together.
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But nowadays when you're in real
life, everyone's just on their phone."
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Matt Abrahams: Right.
00:15:39.072 --> 00:15:44.021
Nayeema Raza: And I thought that
was such an insight that our ability
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to be present in a physical world
has been completely distracted by
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these devices, and our ability to
be present on them, because they're
00:15:53.182 --> 00:15:55.732
full screen experiences, is gone up.
00:15:56.081 --> 00:15:59.221
And that just made me think a lot
about what else we are disconnected
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from, our own curiosities.
00:16:00.462 --> 00:16:01.721
Because we don't sit and wonder.
00:16:01.721 --> 00:16:04.742
We just ask the question and then
know the answer, and then project
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that answer out in conversation.
00:16:06.021 --> 00:16:10.091
And so that's really where the
talk started from, and, and it
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kind of takes a personal turn
of how I learned those lessons.
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But it was a gift to be able to share
a little bit about how you, um, think
00:16:18.531 --> 00:16:22.081
and the world works, and also to be
able to share those kids' perspectives,
00:16:22.471 --> 00:16:24.692
which really caused a gasp in the room.
00:16:24.812 --> 00:16:25.142
Matt Abrahams: Right.
00:16:25.162 --> 00:16:29.922
And when I, when I watched the talk and
heard it, and I'd actually seen your
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interview with them, uh, it, it really is.
00:16:32.441 --> 00:16:37.261
You, you shake your head and go, "What?
Wait, hold on." But in that moment,
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it makes you curious, and, and you do
a really nice job in the talk of not
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only advocating for the curiosities
that you do, but the way in which
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you deliver it makes us curious.
00:16:48.231 --> 00:16:51.761
And it's a nice example, and I encourage
everybody to, to watch and listen
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to it, of how delivery reinforces
the message in a very positive way.
00:16:58.331 --> 00:16:58.851
Nayeema Raza: 'Cause it's playful.
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Matt Abrahams: Because it's playful, and
it's curious, and it, we see ourselves in
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many of the things that you mention, but
we don't feel bad about ourselves for it.
00:17:07.991 --> 00:17:10.331
We say, "Oh, okay, that's who I
am, but I can do this other thing."
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So it's empowering in a way, and I
think a lot of that is not just the
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wordplay, but how you deliver it.
00:17:15.682 --> 00:17:19.662
And, and making content accessible in that
way, not just making sure we understand
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it, but making us feel okay about it,
I, I thought it was really well done.
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You, you're a great question asker.
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Nayeema Raza: I'm gonna
ask you a question.
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Matt Abrahams: Ask me a question.
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Nayeema Raza: Oh my gosh.
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Matt Abrahams: I may or may
not answer it, but go ahead.
00:17:29.062 --> 00:17:29.692
Nayeema Raza: Let me ask you.
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Okay.
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I feel as a millennial, life
is being co-opted by Gen Z now.
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We love them, and Gen Alpha increasingly.
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And I'm curious how you think
about staying relevant as you age.
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Matt Abrahams: Yeah.
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So I think a lot about aging and
relevance, uh, as I'm getting older
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and, and as I'm seeing the impact
I can have and what it means.
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I think it's all about, to your
point, curiosity and listening.
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I, I have an amazing job.
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I get to work with mid-20 folks who are
going to just change the world in amazing
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ways, and that helps me feel excited.
00:18:09.952 --> 00:18:11.461
It helps me feel relevant.
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And a lot of what I do is listen, I'm
curious, and ask questions, and those
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help me feel like I'm adding value.
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When, when I get the opportunity to,
to work with my students or, or younger
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people and, and really listen, synthesize,
and ask questions, that really brings
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joy to me and hopefully relevance.
00:18:30.732 --> 00:18:32.231
Nayeema Raza: Do you feel
like we're losing wisdom?
00:18:33.792 --> 00:18:35.182
Matt Abrahams: I think wisdom is changing.
00:18:35.442 --> 00:18:39.611
I think, uh, the, the fact that so
much information is now available
00:18:39.611 --> 00:18:45.452
that the, wisdom and access to
information are very connected, but
00:18:45.522 --> 00:18:50.292
lived experience, intuition, gut
feeling, that's not captured in an
00:18:50.292 --> 00:18:56.981
LLM, and I, I fear that people are,
are just not curious or seeking wisdom.
00:18:56.982 --> 00:18:58.372
They're just seeking information.
00:18:58.372 --> 00:18:59.822
So are we losing it?
00:18:59.822 --> 00:19:00.801
No, I still think it's there.
00:19:00.801 --> 00:19:03.691
I just don't think, I fear that
people aren't searching for it.
00:19:04.232 --> 00:19:07.732
Nayeema Raza: That is one of
the things I, I worry about.
00:19:07.732 --> 00:19:10.481
In our culture, I think we're
very interested in what's new,
00:19:10.492 --> 00:19:11.731
what's fresh, what's cool.
00:19:12.191 --> 00:19:16.421
And I think that, look, I, I don't think,
I'm not advocating for a gerontocracy.
00:19:16.562 --> 00:19:20.021
I think that, you know, people who
are, you know, boomers and beyond
00:19:20.041 --> 00:19:23.151
probably don't need to be kind of
controlling Capitol Hill anymore.
00:19:23.501 --> 00:19:29.561
But I do think that there's a wisdom
of that experience that is not being
00:19:29.631 --> 00:19:33.171
translated as much in our current
world, and I sometimes worry about that.
00:19:33.172 --> 00:19:33.361
Matt Abrahams: Yeah.
00:19:33.441 --> 00:19:37.651
I, you know, to me, wisdom, there is,
wisdom is associated with experience,
00:19:37.652 --> 00:19:40.011
so the older you are, the, in
theory, the more wisdom you have.
00:19:40.231 --> 00:19:43.451
But I have met very wise
younger people as well.
00:19:43.712 --> 00:19:43.892
Nayeema Raza: Yes.
00:19:43.892 --> 00:19:44.066
Of course.
00:19:44.066 --> 00:19:47.751
Matt Abrahams: And so we, we, I,
I think just this notion of being
00:19:47.801 --> 00:19:52.942
open, being curious, listening
makes you available to wisdom.
00:19:53.441 --> 00:19:55.992
Uh, and, and some of the most
insightful things I've learned,
00:19:56.011 --> 00:19:57.771
like you did, uh, from 11-year-olds.
00:19:57.791 --> 00:20:00.171
I mean, what insight, what wisdom
there in that conversation.
00:20:00.172 --> 00:20:01.882
So, well, thank you for
asking me a question.
00:20:01.882 --> 00:20:01.962
Nayeema Raza: Thank you.
00:20:02.222 --> 00:20:02.242
Yeah.
00:20:02.242 --> 00:20:02.576
Hope that was okay.
00:20:02.576 --> 00:20:04.911
Matt Abrahams: Uh, you know, there,
there is no right, there is no wrong.
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And now back to our conversation
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Um, so before we end, I'd
like to ask three questions.
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One I make up just for you, and
then the other two I've been asking
00:21:06.760 --> 00:21:08.410
everybody as long as the show's been on.
00:21:08.410 --> 00:21:09.520
Are, are you willing to do that?
00:21:09.560 --> 00:21:11.027
Nayeema Raza: Yes, of course.
00:21:11.027 --> 00:21:11.205
Matt Abrahams: Excellent.
00:21:11.205 --> 00:21:12.273
Nayeema Raza: Does that
count as a question?
00:21:12.273 --> 00:21:13.223
Matt Abrahams: That,
that's a, that's a warmup.
00:21:13.223 --> 00:21:13.543
That's a warmup.
00:21:13.703 --> 00:21:14.779
Nayeema Raza: Don't use
one of your three on that.
00:21:14.779 --> 00:21:15.449
Matt Abrahams: Okay, I won't.
00:21:15.539 --> 00:21:17.609
No, it's not like wishes with a genie.
00:21:18.099 --> 00:21:21.610
Um, so, uh, to get very serious,
by coincidence, the day we are
00:21:21.610 --> 00:21:24.720
recording, uh, is the anniversary
of your father's passing.
00:21:25.070 --> 00:21:27.629
Uh, you wrote a very touching
and personal article in The New
00:21:27.630 --> 00:21:29.169
York Times about your father.
00:21:29.560 --> 00:21:33.499
Uh, what is one lesson you wish
people would take away from your,
00:21:33.509 --> 00:21:35.649
your father's life and his wisdom?
00:21:36.970 --> 00:21:39.660
Nayeema Raza: Uh, thank you for
asking and for bringing him up and
00:21:39.660 --> 00:21:41.310
helping me remember him on this day.
00:21:41.770 --> 00:21:42.390
I'll give you two.
00:21:42.390 --> 00:21:45.630
One is from my dad, and one is
from what I've learned from, from
00:21:45.630 --> 00:21:46.800
the experience of losing him.
00:21:47.400 --> 00:21:51.650
I think the, the lesson I learned
from my dad really was to, uh,
00:21:52.580 --> 00:21:57.039
to be present and to not let the
other, may I swear for a second?
00:21:57.039 --> 00:21:57.750
Matt Abrahams: You can.
00:21:57.750 --> 00:21:59.149
Nayeema Raza: The other
shit get in the way.
00:21:59.240 --> 00:22:01.680
He, my dad, was the kind of
guy who never held a grudge.
00:22:01.920 --> 00:22:04.889
Literally, somebody would be upset with
him and not wanting to talk to him,
00:22:04.890 --> 00:22:08.589
and my dad would call his brother every
Sunday to ask how he's doing, and,
00:22:08.589 --> 00:22:09.980
and he would wear you down, you know?
00:22:09.980 --> 00:22:13.859
He really didn't believe in holding a
grudge because at the end of the day, he
00:22:13.860 --> 00:22:17.519
would say, "Well, what am I gonna do? He's
my brother. He's my friend," you know?
00:22:17.750 --> 00:22:22.340
And he had that ability to, in a
world where I think we're often think
00:22:22.340 --> 00:22:25.090
we don't, we want to cut people out
of our life because of how they feel
00:22:25.090 --> 00:22:27.759
about an opinion politically, how
they feel about something, how they
00:22:27.980 --> 00:22:30.889
showed up on that random Tuesday
when we had something important.
00:22:31.699 --> 00:22:36.109
He had that ability to really hold
people's slander and, and, um,
00:22:36.570 --> 00:22:41.019
and to maintain relationships, uh,
and, and give great forgiveness.
00:22:41.029 --> 00:22:42.190
So that's what I've, I've learned.
00:22:42.539 --> 00:22:46.429
And how I translate that lesson and think
into my own life is that when you lose
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someone, it's often possible to get caught
up in I should have, and as your friend
00:22:50.229 --> 00:22:52.139
said, you know, should all over yourself.
00:22:52.169 --> 00:22:58.339
Um, and I think that because he lived
that way, I've been able to, uh, release
00:22:58.349 --> 00:23:01.229
some of the, you know, oh, I should have,
you know, in the pandemic, why didn't
00:23:01.230 --> 00:23:04.170
I go quarantine at my parents' house
instead of going out with friends who,
00:23:04.389 --> 00:23:06.879
you know, all of that kind of, of stuff.
00:23:07.160 --> 00:23:10.849
And I've learned that you really kind of
have the ability to keep people alive and
00:23:10.849 --> 00:23:15.819
to keep having memories and meaning-making
in relationships that are gone.
00:23:17.009 --> 00:23:17.790
Matt Abrahams: That's so true.
00:23:17.799 --> 00:23:22.299
We, we can keep the memory of people
alive through how we talk about them and
00:23:22.299 --> 00:23:23.789
the meaning we make in our own lives.
00:23:23.789 --> 00:23:26.859
Thank you for sharing that, and thank
you for being here on a tough day.
00:23:27.359 --> 00:23:31.359
Uh, question number two, who's a
communicator you admire and why?
00:23:31.369 --> 00:23:31.379
Nayeema Raza: Oh.
00:23:31.999 --> 00:23:33.759
You know, I think Kendrick Lamar.
00:23:34.069 --> 00:23:34.809
Matt Abrahams: Tell me more about that.
00:23:34.809 --> 00:23:35.689
Nayeema Raza: Have people said
Kendrick before on this show?
00:23:35.689 --> 00:23:37.480
Matt Abrahams: You are the
first to say Kendrick Lamar.
00:23:37.539 --> 00:23:40.029
Nayeema Raza: I think
that he's just so poetic.
00:23:40.149 --> 00:23:43.199
His lyrics are really spot on.
00:23:43.209 --> 00:23:44.059
They're catchy.
00:23:44.059 --> 00:23:48.009
I think this about a lot of, like, kind
of rapper-songwriters, but the ability to
00:23:48.020 --> 00:23:54.379
poetically, succinctly, and emotionally
talk about very difficult things, I think
00:23:54.410 --> 00:23:56.989
is reflected in, in Kendrick's work.
00:23:57.479 --> 00:24:02.269
Um, and if you, if you read it, like, I
mean, he's kind of like Chekhov, you know?
00:24:02.710 --> 00:24:05.470
Like, if you read it, you find
it extremely deep and meaningful.
00:24:05.740 --> 00:24:05.910
Matt Abrahams: Yeah.
00:24:05.910 --> 00:24:06.879
No, absolutely.
00:24:06.910 --> 00:24:13.639
And, and a lot of people don't think about
the communicative power of that genre.
00:24:13.689 --> 00:24:15.669
And, and I appreciate
you highlighting that.
00:24:16.429 --> 00:24:19.820
Final question, what are the first
three ingredients that go into a
00:24:19.820 --> 00:24:21.790
successful communication recipe?
00:24:22.020 --> 00:24:22.659
Nayeema Raza: I love that.
00:24:23.329 --> 00:24:26.720
Um, you know I'm gonna say it's on
brand, but number one, curiosity.
00:24:28.000 --> 00:24:31.250
Um, number two, chemistry.
00:24:34.100 --> 00:24:39.094
Being able to cultivate, create, and, and,
um, create that chemistry with, through
00:24:39.114 --> 00:24:42.584
pauses, through play, through jokes,
through language, all the ways that you
00:24:42.584 --> 00:24:46.844
can kind of make sure that communication
is, you know, at least two-way, if not
00:24:47.184 --> 00:24:49.294
an intellectual throuple or beyond.
00:24:49.644 --> 00:24:56.613
Um, and number three, I'm gonna say a
sense of what's not in the room, a sense
00:24:56.614 --> 00:25:02.233
of what's missing, so that you can expand
a conversation, a communication, so that
00:25:02.614 --> 00:25:06.924
you can leave a conversation and think
about how to take it beyond this world
00:25:06.924 --> 00:25:09.384
and, and just can be more aware, I think.
00:25:10.064 --> 00:25:13.573
Matt Abrahams: That last point about
awareness about what's not present
00:25:14.213 --> 00:25:18.203
really allows for conversation and
communication to expand and extend,
00:25:18.573 --> 00:25:19.923
and I, I think that's really powerful.
00:25:19.923 --> 00:25:23.383
And I, I appreciate the notion of
chemistry, connection, building
00:25:23.384 --> 00:25:26.343
that, having that as intention
and, and of course, curiosity.
00:25:26.713 --> 00:25:33.454
Well, thank you for your time and for,
uh, being so forthright and open and
00:25:33.454 --> 00:25:37.414
sharing with us how we can all be better
translators and more curious in our lives.
00:25:37.414 --> 00:25:38.254
I appreciate your time.
00:25:38.334 --> 00:25:38.954
Nayeema Raza: Thank you so much.
00:25:39.053 --> 00:25:40.023
Thank you for having me.
00:25:40.023 --> 00:25:42.433
I've, you know, I love your show,
and I love the work that you
00:25:42.434 --> 00:25:43.894
do, and I love how global it is.
00:25:44.074 --> 00:25:47.643
I just want to say you are reaching
people all over the world who this is
00:25:47.643 --> 00:25:52.183
a global challenge, and you are doing
a great job of helping people succeed
00:25:52.184 --> 00:25:55.373
in their own languages, in English, and
just in everything they do, so thank you.
00:25:55.404 --> 00:25:55.833
Matt Abrahams: Well, thank you.
00:25:55.864 --> 00:25:56.863
Best of luck to you as well.
00:25:56.864 --> 00:25:57.204
Nayeema Raza: Thanks.
00:25:57.654 --> 00:25:59.764
Matt Abrahams: Thank you for joining
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